Develop a good habit of organizing your children
[Introduction]If children can pack their belongings and toys, it is a kind of early inspiration.
Moms don’t ignore this important lesson in life.
Helping children establish their own habit of organizing things is good for children and parents.
Cultivate children’s good habit of organizing things. I often hear some parents reject their children and lose sight of them, and often see some children being beaten by their parents for messing up their home.
But often it ‘s a fight, a curse, a child scatters the bed with toys, and books are thrown all over the table . This seems to be a small problem in the child ‘s life, but it actually gives the child a life to learnEven future work brings too much trouble.
Because the chaos in life will lead to future learning and worklessness.
How to make a lost child become a good habit of being organized, organized, and organized?
First, fix the place where children put things. Give the children a fixed place. Families with conditions can give the children a special small cabinet to place the children’s books and toys, and ask the children to place textbooks, exercise books, toys in separate categories.We also need to help children hang some dolls and put some children’s paintings in it. This small world camp will be a displacement of a small world for children, and attract children to love and cherish this “small world”.
Second, parents should take the lead in saying that Fan’s words and deeds affect the child’s fractures, and this impact is often subtle, and it is no exception in packing and organizing things.
Require the children’s shoes to be neatly arranged. First, don’t take off your shoes and throw them away. Ask the children to put the cabinet and the contents in place. First, they must arrange the items neatly.To return to the original, first of all you have to set an example.
Third, cultivate the child’s habit of packing things. Parents should often educate their children to keep things in order, so that the children develop a good lifestyle of consciously packing things.
Parents must resolutely not let go of any behavior that is not in accordance with the regulations. Once found, they must immediately urge them to put them away in accordance with regulations.
Sometimes, children find their own stuff because of littering. Parents do n’t help the child find it first, and “punish” the child to feel the consequences of being out of order, then help the child.
Older kids can remind them of the importance of packing in 4 ways1 and create a routine for daily cleaning.
The chaos caused by a day is usually easy to deal with, but the chaos added up every day makes the situation more and more uncontrollable!
The best way is to find a fixed time every day to perform daily cleaning.
For example, after dinner, or before changing to pajamas and going to bed, keep doing it.
At the beginning, you can participate in cleaning with your child to make this time more fun.
After a few weeks, the daily cleaning routine will become a habit, and the child’s frustration will decrease.
2. If children have a lot of messy things, they usually mess up the room!
Take a good look at what was thrown on the carpet by your child. What’s okay if it’s gone?
Find a day when your child is not at home, disassemble all these toys and things, and throw away other unwanted things (or put these unwanted things in a box on the top floor or donate it to charity).
Pack these things into boxes, laundry baskets, or tubs systematically, and mark the type or purpose of each thing, such as books, building blocks, stuffed dolls, and so on.
Also put together the supplies needed for children’s school and sports.
Install more jacket hooks or shoe racks in your child’s bedroom.
If there is a place for everything, it will be easier for him to keep the room clean and tidy.
3. Take a big box and put it in the garage.
It is clearly marked as “Prison” with a black pen on the outside of the box.
Every night, the child is thrown in the house to pick up the mess, and then puts these things into this box.
Tell the child that he must pay a fine of ten yuan or do some housework to get these things out of prison.
Please keep calm and perseverance, you will instead find that when children need to pay a fine to redeem their backpack, football shoes, homework or comic book, there will be less and less things you can pick up every night!!
(If you don’t like to use the method of fine money, you can punish him for housework.
The boxes are cleared every Saturday and if there are still things to redeem then those things will be thrown away.
) 4 You can take a strike.
If the child is over ten years old, tell him that you are no longer helping to clean up the chaos caused by others, and he will be responsible for his own things.
Add an important rule: if the house is chaotic, then you will always have his friend come to play; likewise, he cannot go to the friend’s house to play.
You will magically see that when the phone rings, the child can quickly clean up the room!