Are you annoying playing games with your children?
Since you have a baby, your life is full of joy and happiness, but at the same time, you also have a lot of responsibilities. You have to make more money to raise your baby and provide a good physical environment for your baby. When your child is sick, you are even more upset at that time .… In terms of life will upset you, will you “dislike” trouble playing games with your children?
The following scenarios you may have experienced, what do you think?
You take your child to the downstairs garden to play the ball. You wanted to accompany him to play and teach him a little “skill”, but he throws the ball around.
At first you have n’t found any troubles. As time goes by, you ‘ve “picked” the ball, and you feel “annoyed”; you took your child to the beach to play with sand, and you wanted him to learn how to use tools, but he stillI did n’t let you teach him how to play, but it turned out to be “dirty” and you were very annoyed; you wanted to cultivate the consciousness that your child would help people from an early age, you asked him to help you peel your beans, but he did everythingHelping to get the beans everywhere, you feel “troubled” again . ★ When you play games with your children, you may be “suspected” for one of the following reasons?
A, the child is too young to teach him what to play, and it takes too much time to learn. It is too much trouble to teach. The teacher will teach him after he goes to kindergarten.
Some things, children will naturally be older, why teach now, it is too much trouble!
B, sometimes the child’s favorite things are too dirty, a little sand, it is too much trouble to clean him, so I do n’t like to play games of this type for him; C, I wanted to infiltrate some educational content during the game, but the child ‘s concentrationToo bad, a trick for a while, do not know how he wants to play, watching him “blind” playing really upset.
D, some games are too easy for children to excite, some sports games.
Afraid of his hyperactivity, so he can’t play with the child.
Do you agree with the above statement?
If your thoughts are similar to those created above, you can also find your problem.
★ Are you some type of parent?
(1) If your ideas are similar to Type A parents, you may be a parent who avoids difficulties.
Don’t feel that many abilities will naturally be possessed as the child grows up. Children’s many excellent abilities and qualities require parents to help their children build and improve.
A small child does not mean that the child does not need education and help. What you need to know is that no matter how old the child is, you are fully responsible for your child’s education. Do not shirk your responsibility to anyone or any institution.
Don’t think that educating children is a kind of “trouble”. If you try to do it, you will find that the child is full of wisdom.
(2) If your ideas are similar to Type B parents, you may have too high requirements for your child’s living environment.
There is no difference between children’s exploration of surrounding objects and clean and dirty. What we need to teach children is how to deal with objects or toys when they are not clean, and what to do if their hands or clothes are moved, instead of restricting their movements.Facing children’s level of knowledge and exploration.
(3) If your thoughts are similar to Type C parents, I would like to remind you that you must have absolute patience with your children and pay attention to mastering the methods of guiding your children to participate in the game.
In fact, we teach children to learn some tricks or certain actions, not to pursue results too much, and ignore the joyful feeling that games bring to children.
Therefore, what these parents need is how to make their children feel happy in the process of playing, and then they have to master certain actions and incorporate certain educational indicators.
(4) If your thoughts are similar to those of D-type parents, I will tell you clearly that as long as the game arrangement is reasonable and scientific, any game will not make children hyperactive.
It is normal for children to show special excitement in sports games, which is needed for children’s physical development.
Parents need to figure out what to schedule for their children to play games, and how long to play each time, rather than limiting their needs.
★ Why do children like to play games?
Children like to play games because “I want to play” rather than “I want to play”. Games are active, spontaneous, and voluntary activities of children. It must not be forced, urged, or restricted.
Again, the purpose of the child’s participation in the game is mainly to “play” and to get “happiness” from playing, rather than something other than the game (such as prizes in your hands, improving abilities, etc.).
Therefore, no matter what activities the child participates in, you should not first judge “the educational purpose of the activity, will the child’s clothes be changed”, etc., before deciding not to allow the child to participate, let alone restrict the child’sMeans or methods of activities, because this purpose is for parents, not children, we must respect the purpose and reason for children to participate in the game.
You should consider your child’s safety-whether the child really likes the activity, whether he has shown a high level of interest and is happy in this activity.
The child’s physical ability and intelligence are developing. Those games or activities that allow the child to experience a sense of mastery and control can enable the child to form a positive learning consciousness, experience a healthy lifestyle, and actively participate in othersSocial interaction.
On the contrary, a sedentary lifestyle and a stressful environment can lead to poor physical health.
Only by playing games in the form of babies will babies gradually strengthen their abilities in all aspects.
Therefore, when accompany children, first ask parents not to put too much pressure on themselves, do not use the so-called book, test, expert standards to ask the child to what extent.
Creating a fun environment for children is most important, so that you don’t find it “troublesome” to play with your children.
★ To parents, parents need special patience in the process of growing up with their children.
The distortion you are concerned about is whether the effect of education is “immediate”, and more importantly, whether it gives children happiness?
Only a child who grows up in happiness is a “real health” child. Only with “real health” can a child develop intellectual development .